I've been dating this guy for a little over a month or so , we went out several times and we talk fairly frequently ( 4-5 times a week via text, etc...) But sometimes I feel like he isn't into me or is blowing me off when I don't hear from in a long time. When I see him he expresses that he likes me, etc.. But sometimes he gets really busy and doesn't have much time to talk or hangout. I feel like I am starting to really like him a lot as time passes by. I would say i am a fairly busy person , I work and go to college full time. I'm in my early 20's. He's graduated college already and own a small business, and sometimes travels a lot. He's in his late 20's. Every time we hangout I always have fun, one time I didn't see him for about two weeks and we talked here and there , but when he got back from his trip we went out for a date and it lasted over 8 hours, we did a lot of things, movies, dinner, etc... It was pretty fun , he told me he took the day off so he could spend time with me.
We only been intimate once, after that his mood changed instantly like he seemed a lot more into me and he talked for hours after that. We met up and went on a date a couple of days later , he seemed really happy to see me , etc... He expressed interest in seeing me again, etc... Then he had to go on another trip for his business. We talked here and there. I texted him a day ago twice once in the afternoon and once at night, just general texted " hey how are you? Are you free later this week?" , but I haven't heard back from him its been about a day or so.
I just wonder where this will go relationship will go? We're just dating now , not really official , But he's told me I'm the only one he's seeing now. Should I wait for him to respond or should I try again later? I think he like me , when we do meet he make sure we spend a lot of time together , but sometimes i'm not sure. What should I do?
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this guy, as you say, owns a small business, so it is only natural that he will be frequently busy. Don't overthink it and don't worry about it. If you don't think he is cheating then everything should be alright. He obviously likes you and you like him, so just bare with it for a bit. If need be, talk to him and tell him that you get worried when he is away and you text him and he takes a very long time to reply. Talk to him about your feelings. But as it is, you must understand that being the lover of a business man does require some very dire sacrifices, and it is up to you to decide wether or not you can sacrifice what it takes to be with him.0