I think he likes me back but our friendship is amazing. but... I really like him
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I struggled with this for close to 2 years with my best friend. Whether you're getting any signals from him that indicates he sees you as more than a friend or not, you feel it and if you feel anything like how I did, it's agonising lol. Hearing him talk about other women, clinging to any hugs or affection you get, saying sweet things to him and not hearing back the same.. it's all an emotional weight for you. My advice is tell him :) It can go 1 of two ways, he will either feel the same or he won't but either way you have got it off your chest, you've been honest with yourself and him and you don't have to feel the heartache of hiding anymore. I'm sure if you guys are as close as you are he may very well feel the same way for you. If he doesn't, it's better to make the decision to either stay friends or move on earlier than get even closer to him.
It's natural sometimes to take the next step in such a close friendship, relationships are always developing and for two people who click with eachother it seems right to develop to a romantic relationship. My best friend and I did this and we realised in the end our feelings had been slightly confused, we took brotherly sisterly love for romantic attraction and found in the end we were best as friends again. But I don't regret taking that step with him, we're closer than we ever were.
I wish you all the best with whatever you choose to do, remember that if you both care for eachother you will either progress together as more or if not, you will find a way that works best for you. Better to get your feelings out in the open before you become it becomes unbearable to just be friends :)2
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