After going in between being the "nice guy" treating girls like they deserve being serious knowing what I want, not playing with their emotions. And the jerk" player guy who just talks to girls and flirts with the girls he likes talks to more than one girl at the time and leads them on. Honestly I like being the nice guy but when I'm playing the game I get more confident I feel less controlled and more in control. When I'm nice girls tend to be in control and that only happens to me when I really like a girl. I become this nice guy and get screwed at the end.
Most Helpful Girl
You aren't a player because of confidence. Keep the confidence, but also keep the qualities that make you who you really are, which is a respectable guy.0