I seriously hear too much about a guy worrying about how strong or how tall he is. What happen to be confidence, courage, honesty, faith, or etc? The same can be applied to girls when they worry about being too tall, not busty, pretty enough or whatever. Don't come in here thinking I don't I admire looks at all because that's false and stupid.
I find a girl much more attractive when she has a great personality compared to a girl that looks cute but the personality sucks. Both of you worry way too much how you look to people and how the opposite sex looks to you. Seriously these fiction man or girl rules, and height in relationship has gotten ridiculous. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with a preference. I'm just saying there are more important to worry and a lot of times you aren't even being yourself. Like where's the real you?
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Wow this is the most- beautiful- and down to earth question I've come across on here. I feel the same exact way! People are just so shallow nowadays- to the point that it has become NORMAL and expected! These ideals are so shallow yet its almost like people have been programmed to believe them and live by them. It's sad. I donno... Personally I never judge people by their looks/body appearance because whether we realize it or not, the personality and what the person has to offer from the inside is what matters most!! It's really so depressing, and you are spot on- WHERE IS THE REAL YOU? Where have the genuine people gone? When are we gonna look past these superficial values we uphold?
There are so many amazing people on here with such incredible personalities and everytime I see them I genuinely feel such passion and care for them. And its because of what they offer from the inside- not the superficial things that they have to offer from the outside. And they are being themselves, genuinely being themselves, no some fake "cool" persona with unrealistic standards.0
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