So I've noticed a really frustrating issue. Playing hard to get vs not looking desperate. So both guys and girls play this game and honestly I think it sucks. Everyone's afraid of looking desperate why? Because being desperate isn't attractive and people walk away so what do you do you act like your not desperate. So by not being desperate you become very selective and only receptive towards those that you honestly think are really into you aka playing hard to get. Which makes sense until you realize the people you're trying to attract are doing the exact same thing trying not to look desperate. So how do you convince the person playing hard to get that you're really truthfully interested without seeming desperate? And how do you avoid looking desperate without making your self too hard to get? And honestly why can't we all just be honest and stop running from scary stuff like rejection and heart break?
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Be consistent. She looks for your inconsistencies. Don't let that happen and she will come around if she likes you1