So the girl I started seeing drinks everynight after work and smokes cig after cig. I find her almost defiant life attitude amusing and entertaining but at the same time I'm turned off by it as I'm a health nut and don't drink or smoke. When she brings up issues and problems I want to help her and find solutions , but then she just extends her beer to cheers with me and says "life is good". Without addressing the issue? Wtf. So Opposites attract? I feel it represents the opposite of what I believe in , so do I like her or just find her fascinating because she's so different and defiant?
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When it comes to core values, opposites do not attract.
You being a self-proclaimed health nut and her basically being the opposite of that would just cause way too much friction.0