My girlfriend had coffee with an ex the other day. She told me about it. But I said that it made me a little uncomfortable. She replied that he was halving a hard time and needed a friend. It has media me a little upset. Should I be upset or worried?
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It can simply be because she is a kind person who is really trying to help a friend. However to be honest with you i find this a bit strange myself. I can understand a women helping a friend but a women having coffee with her ex can turn some heads. If it bothers you she should respect that and avoid these interactions, explain to her how ex's are different than friends. There are always old feelings that both people remember perfectly when with each other. It is these old feeling that stir up and lead to things. This does not make you insecure, you have the right as her partner to feel bother when a person she shared emotions with comes into the picture. Think about it like this, if you and her weren't together and had coffee would you remember the times you were with her? Possibly even share inside jokes only the two of you made? Explain it to her just like that so she can have a better understanding towards how you feel. If this is a onetime thing let it go, if you see happen too often than speak up on it for the sake of your own health. Stressing and worrying can affect you in many ways and as your partner she should care more about your health than she cared about her ex's hard time.2