OK, i have been with my BF for 4 years, i have his first and only child. He does not live with me, but does help a lot with the rent. I hate the situation because i always stood on my own two feet and was very proud of it. But since i was his employee and he fired me because i got jealous over his female friend which till this day i believe he was sleeping with, but they both denied it. But anyway now , the only time he does stay here is Saturdays, except when he stays later when he is horny, but the only day that he does stay over is Saturdays, except when he has something else to do, if something else comes up, he takes it and blows the Saturday off. He just recently did it, and then this past weekend was in Florida with his parents, ok so they needed him to go to drive for them i can respect that, but in a couple of weeks he is again going down the shore for the weekend with his parents to a wedding. he says he didn't invite me because i have to stay with the baby, which is always his excuse, now this has been going on for a while he never invites me anywhere because he says i have to stay with the baby, and his mother claims she knows its not right, but instead of saying to him u know what u r always out u jus came from florida , its only fair if u dont go to the wedding because she can never go anywhere bcs she is staying with the baby, but instead she encourages him to go, because of course its her family, i have lost job opportunities because i dont have a sitter, n if i tell him to contact his family member which has a daycare he doesnt, he comes n goes as he pleases and then gets pissed when i get mad, i feel like they r taking advantage of the woman i am which is the type that loves to be home cooking and cleaning and taking care of her home man n family, and he knows i am not going anywhere, and he is a libra , dont know if that makes a difference, i am so tired of this, but i dont know if i am completely right, what do u guys think.
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Yeah, ne is taking advantage of your good nature, just switch it up tell him he has to babysit because your goingnout.1