I like my best friend.. AGAIN. We've known each other for a decade now. We dated almost a decade ago. I broke his heart. I dated other guys. He went for other girls. Still not sure if he's ever had a gf or had sex, but that might be besides the point. I fell for him after I broke up w/ my first very serious bf. The relationship ended in college. As soon as my feelings were real full force, my best friend was no longer interested. He even told me he felt like he was using me for the great connection we had or some craziness. Didn't make sense. We never kissed the 2nd time. He said he doesn't take kissing girls he isn't into very lightly... but he always acted like he liked me. Idk, it was confusing situation.
It ended in a HUGE fight where we didn't talk for a long time. He begged and begged to keep me in his life. We're finally friends again. He had told me he tried to get revenge on me for not liking him when he liked me... and that's all what he was doing and that he didn't like me... then proceeded to talk all about how he puts walls up w/ important people in his life.
Anyways, I think I like him again... and I've still dated people since this all occurred. Idk, my gut feeling just tells me that something isn't over between us. The way we talk, the way we share secrets, the way we really care about each other... still. Idk, I just feel like there is more to the story... and that he might still be the one.
What do you guys think? Is it a gut feeling kind of thing?
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if you have a gut feeling go with it... gut feelings are usually spot on. Also, y'all have a lot of history. 10 years is a pretty long time to know someone. Don't over think this just let things falls into place... things will happen the way they are supposed to. Who u end up with (or don't end up with) has already been determined - it's really out of your control.0
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