I'll cut the crap and get straight to it. There's a girl I like, and I felt like we hit it off when we started talking to each other. She smiled a lot (she's outgoing though) and I made her laugh a lot. We chatted on Facebook for a few weeks after but I always started the convos. We would chat until like 1-2 in the morning for like 5 hours straight. Our conversation are always light and flirty (I think). But then I talked to one of my friends and he said that she told him she doesn't like me and that she's too nice to tell me or something. So I stopped chatting her on Facebook even though I still had feelings for her. But tonight, two weeks since I've stopped Fb chatting her, she chatted me for once and we talked for like 4 hours until like 2 am. I really like her, but I don't know whether I should go after her or just back off. Thanks.
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You can't really take one person's word for the truth (especially if it wasn't her word personally). Ask her out to dinner or a movie or something, to get a better feel of how you "click" in person. Pick up hints from how she acts around you. I don't know how old you are (if you can drive), but there must be some way to meet up with her. If not, talk to her about your feelings for her and see how she reacts. She probably feels the same way and is just waiting for you to make the first move. Personally, I would never spend that much time-consistently-talking to someone I wasn't interested in. Even if she doesn't feel the same way at first, she shouldn't treat you any different.1