When I go out, I like to let loose, be myself and have fun. That means flirting with a lot of girls. The girls and I have a good time. What annoys me though, are surrounding guys (who may or may not know you), that:
- put on a serious, snobby, diplomatic vibe. e. g suppose you do something silly like pretend to fly like a bird, a guy who sees you from the side and has nothing to do with you goes "wtf are you doing man? you look so awkward.. stand still"
- support feminist ideology e. g. "dude, how can you just hug random girls you just met? have some respect"
Unfortunately, it's a small world and at the places I frequent, everyone roughly has some idea who you are. I know for a fact that a lot of thee guys are frustrated with their own personal lives and complain about how no girl wants them, even if they have money, looks etc.. but it gets on my nerves when they question why I am the way I am, and why I don't behave like all the other guys. I hate such interference.. how do others deal with it? I know we gotta ignore them, but what do you say to them when they try and lecture you publicly?
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Yeah those guys are hating on you hardcore and wish they were you. Your having fun hugging girls and having the time of your life. Yet they are so bored they are soectating everyone in the club enough to worry about the fun your having. Says a lot about their character that they can't just enjoy themselves they have to comment and raid on your fun. I personally love to convert those beta makes to my fun side. If your personality is more powerful then they can't help but get sucked in. Bring a stronger vibe than they can, remember they are the beta for trying to egg you on. The fact that they took the time from their own life to comment on you proves that.0