I'm trying to understand this but I'm having a hard time. My bf often doesn't see me for week or days at a time and when he gets back, he isn't eager at all to see me. In fact I get the impression that he hasn't missed me at all. This, of course, makes me feel shitty and ver hurt. We've been dating for 2 years.
What do you make of this?
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That's definitely not normal. I don't see my girl for 3-4 days at a time, and I'm always very happy to be back together with her and spend time with her.
It honestly sounds like he's checked out of the relationship emotionally. At the very least, you need to talk to him about it, but prepare to have to make a decision.1