Throughout my life I've been complimented on my good looks along with my funny jokes and personality. Some women have even told me I resemble Leonardo DiCaprio. But unfortunately I have really struggled with flirting with girls and taking the few dates I had to the next level. I don't know if I subconsciously tell myself that these statements are lies or I just don't believe them.
The human mind is a complex thing; we all have one. And we all have our own problems and insecurities. But I can't figure out why these positive reinforcers don't make me better at the dating game.
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I go through the same thing. I was bullied A LOT and actually called ugly by lots of guys. not a good feeling. but now that im out of highschool I found out because they were jealous and were bullied so they wanted to hurt someone weaker. but since then a lot of people had said im pretty and cute. but now bc so many guys have called me ugly looking in the mirror I've convinced myself that I am ugly from all these other times. now its hard for me too believe im not. kinda just have to somehow re wire your brain into not thinking it. im not sure how though0