Knowing you got this and you are secure with yourself, is that what makes a guy go nuts for you?
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Questions like this are tricky, because different people have different ideas of what it means for someone to be "confident". There is much wider agreement on what it means for someone to be secure about their bodies, so I will confine my remarks to that.
I think self-secure women are far more attractive. I mean, it is a turn-off to see a woman constantly looking down on her own worth such as doubting the faithfulness of her man because she imagines that some other woman appeals to him more, refusing to do woman on top with the lights on because her man would get a better look at her body, and stuff like that. Likewise, it is a turn-off to see a woman constantly reassessing the attractiveness of her features by asking questions such as "does this dress make me look fat?", "do you think my boobs are too small?", "would you be okay with me undergoing breast enlargement surgery?", "do you think I would look better with a small gap between my thighs?", and stuff like that.
I have found that women tend to be so insecure about their bodies that merely having an opinion that some small change would make her 1% more attractive will actually jeopardize the existence of the relationship or potentially lower its quality permanently. I'm not even allowed to have opinions around insecure women, and they always want my opinions, and they won't let me refrain from giving opinions (because then they will imagine that my opinion is far more harsh than it really is), and that whole situation makes me feel so frustrated that I just want to just pull my hair and yell "aaaah!".
If you have small titties, rock 'em. If you have big titties, rock 'em. If you have a small booty, rock it. If you have a big booty, rock it. The mere fact that you are able to rock what you've got will make you a hundred times more appealing than a woman with the same features who's afraid to rock 'em. Self-secure women FTW.2