Most of the time if the average or below average looking young guys message gets read and his profile gets looked at afterwards 99% chance there would be no response by the females in their late teens oarly 20s' despite doing a good profile and sending a good thoughtout message to someone you have things in common with. I messaged all types of women. Average, below average, and good looking ones. Messaged tons of women. I hardly ever got a response. I decided to put a picture of a really good looking guy on my profile and all of a sudden 50% of my messages were getting responded to. I saw online many other guys doing the same experiment and having similar results.
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My answer may sound odd but before I hit the gym and worked hard at my physique, I found I went on more dates from girls online. I also found that having a "casual dating" oriented profile got me first messages from girls. I have gone on dates since hitting the gym but they ended up being girls who used misleading photos to hide their weight.
I left my profile hanging for a while and honestly now, browsing again I messaged a few but they choke when I ask for their number and stop replying. One thing I notice is that I don't feel all that inclined to send messages out when I read mosta the profiles. Girls in my area and demanding guys have a fancy car and "man's" jobs. The biggest thing I notice is having had these profiles for literally years, I am seeing the same girls on them years later! It automatically makes me wonder if they're just that picky or if they have some crazy mental issue. I can't blame a guy being on years later but when you're a girl who gets 50+ messages a day... you can't still have a profile bitching and whining that there's supposedly no good men left.1