I have been with many guys who tried to manipulate me into sex and only wanted sex, and played my heart-pretended to care, lied to me, etc. just to leave me because I wouldn't put out. One was also a HUGE liar, he would lie all the time and hide things like many other females and it always made me anxious and nauseous.
Now I am dating a new guy and so far he seems very trustworthy and respectful like he genuinely cares. So I am scared out of my mind that he's just another faker. I cry about it. If a few hours go by without hearing from him I start to freak out and think he's just leaving me.
It's like I am looking for something to be wrong because this is actually going well, and it's scaring me out of my mind that I'm just being fooled again.
I want to cling to him because I REALLY like him, and run away because I'm terrified of being used, at the same time.
Any advice? It makes me feel so fearful and wanting to cry.
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