There's this girl in my church that I really have a thing for. I've only had small talks with there because she works there too. I think she's super cute. Not hot lol. Cute. And yes there's a big difference. I just feel like overwhelmed to talk to her because we have quite a number of people in our church youth group like college age students so she has like a thousand some friends on Facebook. And everytime she posts something on Facebook, she gets a crap ton of likes. Like one single status can generate like 50-60 likes and one picture can have like 100 some likes. So I'm like "oh God it's so intimidating how many friends she has and if I'm lucky enough to get closer to her, her friends are gonna swarm over me." Like especially her roommates. I don't think I'm a great looking dude. I mean I'm fit and muscular but I think I just have an okay face. I do think it I'm pretty intelligent and fun and energetic. One of my buddies are like "dude she's not THAT good looking. I mean yeah she is but she gets ALLL those likes on Facebook and she's STILL single? She's not like THAT good looking". I'm not necessarily afraid of what she thinks of me but what her friends will. I don't exactly view that highly of myself in terms of attractiveness level so I also start wondering why she would wanna date me out of all the other guys who she knows that are better looking than me and probably better personality too.
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I have 1000 something friends on fb and I only know about 200. Which half happen to be family. Then there are the ones I know but dont speak to. So just ignore all that and actually talk to her. You seem really nice and she might just be waiting for someone like you. Not too attractive but with a great personality0