I met this guy on tinder. He texted me everyday, and two nights we talked on the phone for 3 hrs. he asked me to hang out on fri and sat night of one weekend but I had plans. On The sat night I went out and then texted him asking if he wanted to meet up. Me, my friend, him, and his friend all went out and then went back to his friend's house. 4am strolled around and I told him me and my friend had to go. My friend went to wait in the car and he gave me a huge hug and started kissing me. We made out and he asked me to stay and told me he would drive me home in the morning but I told him I had to go. We said bye and I texted him 10 mins after saying "I didn't wanna leave :( you're mad" no response. and then the next day I texted him and said "thank you for last night, I had a good time" he said "me too i just woke up" then i said "i've been up since 8am" he said "lol" i said "loll" he said "that sucks" then i said "what are you up to?" He didn't answer for 2 hrs so I said "did you fall asleep on me lol" he didn't answer for another 5 hrs so I said "are you mad I didn't stay over" still no answer. I should have given him the benefit of the doubt but I texted like 70 times. And now he blocked my number. And it's been over 3 weeks. I shouldn't have gotten out of control but at the same time 9 hrs went by and he never texted back?
1. Was he into things?
2. Would he have kissed me if he wasn't attracted to me?
3. Do you think he wasn't answering that next day bc he wasn't interested or was he maybe busy and I messed everything up by texting so much.
4. Is there a chance he will ever contact me again?
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texted too much to the point of it must have seemed like you were crazy or obsessed.
Originally he texted you back and everything looked on track until you texted an insane amount. Maybe his battery died and he didn't have a charger so he couldn't respond. Lots of things could have happened.
Guys just don't kiss girls they are not attracted to, the fact that he gave lots of clues that he wanted to hang out before, tried everything to get you to stay longer and then kissed you should have been enough info to convince you that it was on track.
Unlikely he contacts you because you have been filed away in the "obsessive" category by him as evidenced when he blocked you. Sorry to be blunt on this but when you get a good sign from a guy, just be happy and act natural, the minute you start behaving differently than the girl he thinks he first met then you can ruin things. So next time a guy seems to like you, try to do and act the same as you did leading up to the point where he became interested because obviously that what working.0