Met a girl. Seemed to like me. We've been texting for a while now and despite the fact she was self-described as "very shy", she constantly sent <3's, comments like I'm charming, and a plethora of ;)
A few weeks ago she invited me to her house for a movie. I was ecstatic, but my mom made me cancel. She didn't approve. The girl said it was totally fine. Kept talking and both wanted a reschedule.
A few weeks later, I asked if she was free a day. No reply. I texted her a week later apologizing if that made her feel awkward. She replied saying she did because she didn't know how to reply. But it wasn't my fault at all. So I said *she* can let me know when she was free. She agreed and was happy I was so understanding.
School ending, I'd text her sporadically, checking in on her because her mom limited phone use during finals. I said we should do something soon. She wants to, but she couldn't till summer. Totally understandable.
A few days before her vacation, I was texting her. I said let me know when she was free when summer started. She sent a long message saying I was the nicest person for being so accommodating and understanding. Made me happy
She's now on summer. In a week, she leaves for the 4th of July. My work vacation matched a few days before she leaves. Small opportunity to see her. I was in her town one of her first days of summer. I said short notice, but I was in the neighborhood if she'd want to get together later. If not it was totally fine, and I hope that didn’t make her awkward. Just an idea. No reply.
Due to advice by friends, next day I told her of my vacation and I'd love to see her before she leaves. If she's too busy, I completely understand. No response. That was 3 days ago.
Went from texting a lot and apparent mutual liking to nothing.. My friends said despite her shyness, I didn't screw anything up. What happened? What do I do? I'm so disheartened, and it sucks this is suddenly over apparently. I don't want it to be
I just don't understand... I'm so puzzled and so disappointed...
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First of all her mom sounds like a total B... she probly doesn't want to make her mom angry/upset so maybe thats why she doesn't talk to you anymore? Sounds like you guys went through a lot of trouble trying to make plans, she probly thought it was just too hard/complicated... OR she's found somebody else :/... dont beat yourself up you didn't do anything wrong and find yourself someone who has the time for you :)0