I had classes with a guy for about a year and a half. We flirted a lot, hung out some... basically it seemed as if we were on the verge of being something more for a while but over a period of a few months he slowly dropped me and I'm 99% positive he simply lost interest.
Well I've been trying to get over him for a couple months now. I've only seen him twice but its still really difficult to not miss him and think about him. (Its definitely over, there's no trying to get contact again. ) But no guy has caught my eye. Even guys that are really cute, nice, funny etc don't feel right at all. Only he feels right.
I even said yes to a guy who asked me out (he was okay) just to try to forget him and I hated the whole night and I just wanted to be with HIM.
How long will I feel this way? Not only do I think about him and compare him to other guys while I'm with them, but I'm not attracted to other guys either like at all.
Help me. I'm miserable.
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I totally get your pain, and yes it sucks and is miserable. I promise you that you will get over it eventually, although how long it takes is really a personal thing. It once took me about a year to get over one guy I dated, and about 2 weeks for another. There is no need to rush yourself to date other guys, give yourself time to get over this one first. Once you are over him it will be easier to open your heart up to another guy.1