So I met this girl and we immediately connected. Conversations were great and almost non-stop for weeks on end. Went on a few dates and the chemistry was definitely there.
But then, she said she just wanted to be friends. But then a week later she said she didn't think we could be just friends. And that she wasn't over her ex and not ready/looking for another romantic relationship right now.
So my question is... is it worth waiting around for her to be ready? Or should I cut my losses and move on? And if I should wait, how long is long enough?
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In my honest opinion, I think she's keeping her options open. It sounds like she's making excuses up to not be with you, because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Moving on doesn't mean she can't be an option in the future. If a girl wants to be with you, and she's genuine and wants a relationship with you, she would spend time with you, and definitely would not say anything about not wanting to be together. I would never say that if I wanted to be with someone. Otherwise, it's just gameplay. And that's just a head f***.0