i mean we like confident girls too, we have the same doubts, fears and feelings about approaching a girl as girls would have if they had to approach a guy.
what makes the approaching part our job? our penis? where is your so called "emancipation" when it comes to this? i find that unfair and outdated.
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Why is it still considered a guys "job" to approach girls?
Likely the same reason why gals generally still do all/most of the household and childcare duties despite bringing in the same or similar amount of money or why there is still the sl*t/stud double standard. That reason being patriarchal gender roles.
where is your so called "emancipation" when it comes to this?
I'm unsure what emancipation has to do with this considering gal's rights were seemingly about legal issues. Gals may have equal rights however I find most often they aren't socially regarded equals so it's reasonable to be that in a romantic/sexual context many gals fall back on traditional gender roles.
" i find that unfair and outdated."
You finding it such is understandable to me as I note that guys generally only have issues with old-fashioned notions that don't give them the advantage.7
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