Despite every bad thing the person has done would you choose the good times over the bad ones?
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Well, I think every situation is different, until I see a pattern forming. Personally, I will always forgive because it takes too much energy out of me to worry about their wrong doings. If I think having that certain person around isn't good for my health/happiness, i'll forgive them and leave them in the past. If they aren't good i will not choose the good times over the bad.0