My aunt always wants me to date. She thinks it's bad that I only want good-looking women. Well, what's wrong with that? I will never date a woman I am not attracted to no matter how nice she is. If I couldn't date a woman I find attractive then I would rather be single and alone. I am very picky about the women I approach, I have to be attracted to them. Being unlucky in dating and with women doesn't mean I will date the first woman who shows interest in me. Why should I lower my standards?
Why is it so wrong to only want to date attractive women?
What Girls Said 6
Nothing wrong with it... in fact it's pretty normal to want to be with a person that you find attractive. I can't see how it can be enjoyable or healthy to be stuck with someone who you don't find physically appealing. People just don't like admitting this because obviously it can step on people's toes who might feel insecure about themselves. But the good news for those people is that beauty is subjective and that what one person views as attractive isn't the same as the person next to them. I could never be with someone who I feel no attraction towards. It's important for me. I've tried dating a guy in my past who I didn't find attractive per say but he was a good friend... well after a few months I just felt totally bad and like I was wasting my time as there was no chemistry, butterflies or excitement. I wouldn't recommend it to anyone. As long as your standards are realistic it's fine. It's not unrealistic to want a partner who you find pleasing to look at in my opinion.1
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It sounds like you’re looking for someone who is attractive along with a great personality. Nope, nothing wrong with it…. We all want to be with someone who we are attracted to, looks-wise as well as personality… its just easier to be attracted to the person from their looks before their personality. Its completely normal and there's nothing wrong with it… I think everyone feels the same way (even the ones who say its shallow) =D1
Because you don't really have standards, you're just looking at the outside. Everyone would rather have an attractive person to date, but if their personality isn't there than what's the point? Would rather be with someone pretty who makes you miserable or someone you really enjoy being around?0
Just make sure they are attracted to you or you could have big problems... lol..1
Ideally, you want someone who you find attractive. If you don't, chances are you wouldn't really like them. Now attraction isn't only a matter of appearance, it has also to do with the connection you have with one another.0
its incredibly shallow no offence0
What Guys Said 4
Meh, here's the way I see it.
If a person has never someone they consider to be completely physically hideous, they have no right to call you shallow.1
There's nothing wrong with that.1
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