I think that men are WAY MORE interested in women than women are interested in men. We're the ones that approach, ask out , pay for a woman's company and time aka a date, go all out , etc. I never thought that women were really ever interested in men as much as men are interested in women. It's almost like they give off a "you better be grateful that I gave you my number and I'm agreeing to go out with you" type of vibe which is kinda sad and selfish. Thoughts?
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It sure seems that way sometimes, at least in my experience. Whenever I read questions on the internet or hear it from my friends or even random passerby's, it more often than not seems like it's the girl who is pulling away from the guy's romantic pursuit, and not the other way around.
I actually see a lot of questions where girls say, "I didn't see him romantically at first" or "I rejected him at first, but eventually I developed feelings."
Guys seem to be more interested, or at least catch interest, a bit quicker than girls. It may have to do with the fact that guys seem to be more visual, whereas girls seem to be more mentally attracted (speaking in general of course).1