Under 18 as long as you're not hooked onto technology and have a good set of social skills, it will not be a problem.
It gets harder and harder as people get older when more factors come into play. When you're young and in school, you have plenty of choices honestly. The girls aren't going to try to look into what living space you're in, what your yearly salary is, and so on. As you get older it gets tougher as these girls start getting more uptight about the "quality" of the guy while basing "quality" on all the wrong things.
My advice is to find a girl while you're young. As long as you can converse in real life without all the social anxiety technology addicts have you'll be fine.
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Because hooking up has become more common, so a smaller group of more popular guys are monopolizing a larger proportion of women.
That's what's changed 'these days'.
The other issue is your age, demand for women your age is higher then for males your age, because older guys are poaching some of the girls your age. That trend continues till you're 25, at which point men have a supply/demand advantage vs women from then on, though never as big as the advantage 18-24 year old women have.
Because everyone has high standarts now and if they find one thing that's unattractive about you they move on... they can't accept the fact that everyone has flaws and no one is perfect and they are not willing to take the time to really know someone because they're not attractive enough.
I dont think that people should base what they look for in other people as "standards". That's just cheap and demeaning.
Instead look at the "standards" as something that people are searching for in the opposite gender to help them find that soulmate :)
I think guys and girls should be open minded and realistic, but not lower their standards. there's a difference. You want what you want, don't cut yourself short.
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For one, we all have so many options. Hell, I can get dates with teenagers on tinder.
For two, guys are taught the opposite of how to be attractive dates.
For three, Americans are so fat. Women can be forgiving of fatties sometimes, but for men, fat women are completely unattractive.I’ve never had a girlfriend ever since high school year. Although girls get turned off by me I really don’t want them being brainwashed by the media that all men should be super taller, super stronger, and super intelligent than any other person in this world. That doesn’t make any sense. I may not have enough money, I may not have a car yet, I’m working on it, I may not be good looking for her but I want to give her the time based of my schedule to hang out with her. Get to know her as a person, I just miss the early 90s more specifically when girls had time on their hands and gave the guys who were interested in her a chance. I’m an outgoing person and like to have fun, I’m no different than any other person who also wants to have fun and just want love. But alas I really can’t even get to a girl’s heart or herself.
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anti-female rage
does not realize that the gender-specific conceptual separation is partially responsible for his inadequacy at relating with females
also trying to get a "girlfriend" just to have a girlfriend and not to establish a reasonable relationship based on mutual admirationI thought it was vice versa seems hard to find a boyfriend
Why do you think its hard?
Because you care too much about getting one.
Why is it so hard to get a boyfriend these days?
Some women are too picky
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