-Met a girl online 2 months ago. We hit it off amazing
-Later on into our "Dating", her severe depression starts acting up, causing her to react extremely strange to little stuff
-She told me she wants to stay single for awhile untill she feels she's stable. She is currently taking meds and getting professional help
-We hung out again recently, and i made a joke about her kissing me. Later that day she tells me she feels uncomfortable and awkward with hanging with me because of my feelings, because "she wants to stay single and not develop feelings right now"
-Whenever i talk to her about something, that suggests me and her dating, she doesn't reject me or say anything. For example:
"Does it bother you I dont have tattoos? i know you like guys with tattoos"
"Well dont worry about them, you got me now"
"I just want you to know ill wait on you till you're ready, unless you tell me to move on"
Again, she either changes topic, or doesn't reply when i say the above. So basically she doesn't reject me, but doesn't flirt back either.
I would like opinions on what to do. Thank you
- move onVote A
- keep talking to herVote B
Most Helpful Girl
She's rejecting you. No sane girl who is genuinely interested in a guy is going to tell him "I want to stay single and not develop feelings right now". I mean, would you tell this to a girl who you have feelings for? That is the exact opposite of what someone will do when they like you. Your friends are a bit wrong on this I'm afraid. If she was scared of her feelings then she would have made this very clear to you in the fear of losing you. But yet she didn't and chose her words differently implying she doesn't really have any fear of potentially losing you.1
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