During this year and last year I have been rejected by about 50 plus women. When I say this I mean women I know have talked to for some time and they pull out the friend speech and then never talk to me again.
Most of the girls I am not even interested in but about 4 I have been and those are the 4 which have been worst, not because I cared about the rejection but the way they decided on doing it.
One girl called me undesirable, I look like the hunchback and am mean. Another basically played me, led me on and then choose another man with the, "I didn't mean to hurt you..." Another one basically created situations for her to fight with me and then disappeared and started dating my cousin.
Now all these women claimed to be my friends. Maybe that is the mistake I make. I like people I get to know, and apparently I am really a horrible person so I am not dating material.
Maybe I am writing this because I am in a low part of my life. I have been treated badly in the realm of romance, while in my country. Once out I can find women who are attracted to me. That might be what really is bothering me...
anyway, I was wondering what might be the reasons for so many women, which I am not even hitting on, to all reject me in such a blatant way. It almost feels like they never really cared.
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe you aren't aggressive enough. As weird as it sounds if you make it really apparent that you are interested romantically than its either a yes or a no. Not a let's be friends. And if they aren't interested simply learn how to not care. Most guys have got that down pack. Girls are terrible and never miss an opportunity to lead a guy on and try to use them. So if you try to go the friend route at winning their heart they can get you more emotionally invested and that's never good if she doesn't want to date you. And don't talk to people you aren't trying to hit on because all girls assume when you start up conversation you probably are interested.1