Have you ever been in a relationship where your partner gives you the cold shoulder when they're upset instead of talking to you about it?
What do you do to deal with it?
Most Helpful Guy
My last love interest started becoming cold / detatched etc... and almost acted like the only reason she communicated with me was just to be nice... LESSON I've LEARN... dont chase them... back off for awhile... they need to understand that even though you care... its their decision to be non-existant for awhile... thats how he wants it... well he gets it...
Me personally... i have a tendancy to go off somewhere alone and isolated when im hurt... but thats only after I've tried my best to get through bad situations until I've temporarily given up...
If anything you could just quietly put your hand on their shoulder as a sign that you care... but dont interupt their little pouting session... it makes it worse...0
Most Helpful Girl
That's honestly the worst thing. I hate that, I am the type of person who wants to discuss it and find a solution to the problem instead of letting it blow over. Most of the times talking about it could solve so many problems and you get to know one another so much better for it as well. I can see that it's frustrating, especially if they're not being reasonable enough to be civil and have a chat to you about it. I would say just let them cool off, and once they do, don't accuse them or anything for giving you the cold shoulder but rather just let them know that in future if there is ever such a situation again you'd like to handle it differently, and that you'd like for them to open up and not be afraid to be honest about their feelings. If they are mad, they should be mad, and speak up so it can be resolved.3