There is no real amount of time that you should wait. The only thing that matters is how you feel. If you don't have any desire to pursue anyone else and only want him in your life, it's time to try and become exclusive. If you would be upset about finding him with another girl, it's time to become exclusive. For some, that's after the first few dates. For others it's the first time you have sex. It just depends. Listen to how you feel and you won't go wrong.
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After you have a DTR talk, which can only happen when you are both ready to have it. If he wants to take it slow, you need to give him time and space. But be prepared if he's not interested in a long term or exclusive relationship. Saying he wants to take it slow could just be an excuse for him to stay with you while still playing the field.
I think it all depends on you and the guy. It can be after the first week or not for a few months, the only thing that matters is how comfortable you guys are with each other and if both of you are ready for a relationship or not.
It depends on your relationship. My best friend and her boyfriend became exclusive after the second date, and since then they have 4 years together.
It depends on your relationship. For my bf and I, we were exclusive after the first date
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This is why I love the show Scrubs, I get to do stuff like this:
“Who the hell cares what anybody else thinks? Just look into your heart and do whatever the hell makes you happy.”— Dr. Kelso3 months.
2 years, marriage or smash everything then move out.
Skip this anonymous stuff. women and guys need to be able to read your other posts.Each case could be different but I suggest a wait of no longer than 12 years.
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