I had a crush on her for 2 years already. Everytime I see her cry in class, I can't help but feel sad too. The last thing I want to see is to see her cry. I know she have her clique to cheer her up, whom she trusts, but I just want to comfort her, give her a hug, let her know that im always there for her no matter what. But I just dont know how.
She and I are on quite good terms, play fights, laughs at jokes together and we talk. I get to sit beside her at some lessons, and she knows I have a crush in the class. She kept asking me who it was but I just dont want to say because its her. But when she's sad I dont know how to comfort her, because there's plenty of other friends there for her. Im afraid she will push me away if i hug her, I dont even find the courage to cheer her up. How do I overcome this?
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Perhaps it is because of You she is feeling this way... Maybe 'hard in her heart' to see you every day, Wanting to tell you, but can't. It has happened to Me in my life, for I liked someone so much as a teen one time, and he and I had a great relationship in friend zone forest, but deep down, I was 'Crying the blues,' wanting him so, but didn't know how to tell him. Could be Your case, not sure, however... She could just have issues.
Whatever her story, all you can Do is just be there for her for now, for a shoulder to lean on and one to cry on. Feel it out for now. And asking her if she is alright is another thing you can offer, as you----Give her your Hug. No, I don't think she will 'Push you away,' but May welcome you with her open arms.
Good luck. xx
Good luck. xx0