So me and my bf are in love I has his number and he has mine, we live in the same state not far apart... only problem is I don't know if he is who he says he is. He sent me a pic of himself before anything... wut do I do? I love him and I know he feels the same for me... I could use some good help! Oh and PLEASE dont say, "its not safe" or "You should not date over the internet" Oh and keep in mind my parents do NOT know about me texting him...
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First of all: Be careful with the expression "love"... That is something you feel after taking care of somebody for a long time, not something you feel for somebody you know a few weeks. You feel a certain connection now - and since it's over the internet, it's probably not only sexual attraction. Therefore something could grow from it, but be careful with that.
Use some video chat, but don't let him talk you into getting nude! He could be recording on his side and upload it somewhere. Even if it would be illegal and even if he'd go to jail, it would still ruin your life as you could never get the video removed again - it will always remain somewhere, besides that thousands will have seen it already until you know about it.
When you meet him the first time, get him somewhere close to you, don't go to his place or even just the town. Let him come over to a café near your home and ask a friend to be there too, she, or better: he, can just sit in the café close to you, you don't have to let him know that this is a friend of yours - and if it gets serious, he will understand that you needed a friend around at the time.
Just be careful, it's a mad world...4
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