my boyfriend is a control freak. he tells me that I can't hang out with or talk to my best friend. he doesn't want me texting anyone that isn't him. & he starts fights with me if I leave the house. & he won't even let me have Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, or Vine. him & I have been dating for 9 months. & all he seems to want to do is fight with me. he gives me the opportunity to leave but when I think about it it seems like it would make me happier just letting go. but I love him a lot, I mean it's been 9 months. what should I do?
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If your truly not happy and see no possible way of lasting then I suggest end it before it gets harder. The longer you wait the harder it gets to end it. If you truly love him and see a future with him then you both need to sit down and have a discussion on trust and those type of things. My boyfriend is similar but we've made compromises and he simply expressed that he's worried but thats mainly because I've been through a lot and wants to make sure I'm safe and everything. This could be the case here too.1