Hey guys, I'm nervous about asking my girlfriend to do things with me. I don't know why, but I always go straight to assuming that she doesn't want to go do things with me. Am I over thinking this? We've been dating for a month and a half..
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If you mean sexual things, that depends on if you guys have done anything with each other yet, as well as how open to it she is in general. I'm sexually active with my boyfriend, but I wish he would ask me or initiate to 'do things' with me more often. I brought that up with him a few times and he said he pretty much just can't believe that I actually enjoy sex that much, as his last girlfriend was on the conservative side.
So what I'm trying to say is that if you know that both of you are okay with fooling around and you've already gotten the okay from her, you're over-thinking it. Girls have their needs too, and there truly is no harm in just asking!0
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