I like this guy and he likes me. He's 27 and I'm 19. I don't know what he wants in the future but by the sounds of it he's pretty serious about us. I dont want to date him because I'm scared of what my family would think, he has a kid as well. He's not the type of person I would want to bring home to meet my parents. Is this bad?
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Its not "bad" per say, but it sounds like you two are in way different places in life. They say age doesn't matter... but at a point it does.
You're only 19, you're way too young to settle for someone who already has a kid. He is older, has a kid, and is looking for some solid ground under his feet. You are young and looking to take risks and explore the world.
I would say date him for as long as it is fun, but that would be pretty mean to him, because he is looking for something that will last. If you care about him, let him find someone who wants what he does.0