Guys: Who should make the first move?
If you were single and in a public place (bar, grocery store, coffee shop etc) and you saw the woman of your dreams would you approach her?
Most Helpful Guy
Well the problem with approaching girls in a random place is tricky, if she thinks you're cute it's okay, if you're not attractive she'll think you're a creep and make you feel bad about it. When I was fat I'd approach girls and get shot down with a cannon. Now that I've lost a lot of weight things are better, if I get shot down it's with a much smaller gun, lol.
I like it when a girl makes the first move, or at least makes sure she puts herself in the position to make it clear she's open to you approaching. For example, I've been at coffee shops standing around waiting on my order and then a girl will come hang around me and linger a little then comment about something and then it makes it super easy for me to strike up a conversation with her. That's happened to me three times since I lost weight and started going out more, lol.1