Some of us have been there probably, a guy/girl is asking you out but you don't want to go because you just know you'll just be annoyed by your company so you'd rather stay at home than going out with him/her (even if it's just to the movies). How do you decline the date without being rude or hurting someone? I'm in the situation now. A guy who kind of annoys me asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with him, he has free tickets to the avant premiere of that new step up movie, I just said I didn't fancy going. He asked me 3times in 10 minutes and I kept saying no. So it's quite getting on my nerves, which leads to the second question: how do you keep polite when someone asks you out to the same thing 3 times (or even more) in 10 minutes?
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Haha, we're from Belgium... with our 3 governments and 6 parliaments we're good in politics!
Certainly, don't tell him you don't have time since he'll ask it again.
The best thing is probably to be kind and frank at the same time: you don't want to hurt him so tell him that you need to be honest with him. That you appreciate the question but that your feeling just says no.
If he asks why, you could say you just don't feel a click with him, without disliking him.
Correct, but diplomatic :-)