I'm just curious. I'm 15 and never been kissed before (aside from my parents and those are good night kisses), and there's this guy who i know that I would really like to get a kiss from. I've just started to know him - it's been month that we've known each other - and I know i need to wait a lot longer before I could ever think of getting a kiss from him. The last night that I was with this guy, we slow danced, and i knew i should've just kissed him then, but that would've been way, way, WAY too soon. Can I get some advice on this please? any advice would help. Thanks! :)
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Don't attach rules to spontaneous gestures that are driven by emotion. That's like asking "when is it too soon to stop crying over the death of a loved one?" There's no algorithm for controlling emotions. When you're ready, it will happen.
Based on the information you've given us, it looks like you missed the first opportunity because you made the mistake of setting a rule for yourself which killed the spontaneity of the moment. You're close. Just don't make that mistake again and you'll be fine.0