Hey. So i know this will make me sound really cheap, but most of my pay goes on bills, so i don't have much expendable income.
Anyway, i met a girl a few weeks ago, and everything is going great. Now for the first few dates i paid for dinner, activites, etc, as i felt the guy should pay for the first dates.
However now whenever we go out, she just expects me to pay for everything. And as i mentioned, i don't have much money to spend.
So how do i ask her to pay for her own food, tickets, etc, without coming across as cheap or rude?
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I think a girl should be fully capable of paying for herself and if she has any self respect and respect for you, should want to pay for herself. Don't be a dick about it, but just explain the situation before you go out the next time. If she really is worth your time, then she won't make a big deal about it.2