Okay, so a friend of mine (who I have a really big crush on) used to be suicidal, and cut, and it was just the worst. Eventually she got out of it. But now, years later, she started cutting again, and now she has been having suicidal thoughts. I asked her if she wanted to have lunch with me, so we could talk about it, and I could show her a perfect substitute for cutting. Now this will be kind of a help-her moment, but I feel like it will create a bond between us.
So do you think that at the end of it I should try to kiss her?
Or should I just hug her, then ask her out on a more official date later, and try to kiss her there?
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Be careful where you tread, sir. You sound like you want to provide her with the support she needs to stop cutting. Which is fine... but with people like her, you have to be careful because she may rely on you entirely for her emotional validation and that can be dangerous if you two fight or break up.
That being said, go with approach number two.0