I need to convince someone to move from the southern part of the United States to the North Eastern part of the United States. She wants me to move south , but I know I wouldn't be happy there for both cultural and climate reasons. She only wants to stay in the south because it's where she grew up. She's in North Carolins and sees Virginia as a fair compromise. I'm in New York. Anything to help would be great.
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If you don't want to move to the south for those reasons then why should she move to the north when she doesn't really want to? She offered you a compromise with moving to Virginia (which is where I live). However, most Virginians consider themselves southerners and it's really nothing like the north, we aren't even that different from North Carolina. I'll be honest, most southerners I know would never move up north with any amount of convincing, I know I wouldn't. If you can't compromise then I guess one of you will just have to give in and move to where the other is or you'll both have to give up.0