So he thinks I'm a bad gf, yet he's still with me? What should I do..
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If he's bothering to tell you instead of simply breaking up with you, it means there's still enough about you that he does like, and he's hoping that letting you know will cause you to change the situation. That way he can still have you as a girlfriend but without the stuff that annoys him.
The question is, just what is he hoping will change? Is it something small, like "please don't chew with your mouth open" or is it something big that would require a major personality change? You need to talk to him, find out what it is that is putting him off, and then decide if you like him enough to be worth putting in the effort to make those changes. If not, then walk away. But think carefully, don't be lazy (it's possible he's reacting to something that you'd be better off learning to change. Like if his problem is "you need to get out and exercise more!" or "I wish you'd read more books!" maybe he's right? Maybe those would be positive changes in your life? I don't know, it depends on your lifestyle and your situation.0