I am being forced to make a decision , but I don't know who I should be with.
Guy one: old friend, I feel financially and emotionally safe with him. He knows where is headed in life. He is my age. Very respectful. I have to try and put effort into talking to him. Physical appearance wise he is chubby.
Guy two: someone I met at a party, two years younger, physical and emotional chemistry. He knows what I'm thinking without asking. We have no problem talking. I feel like his mother sometimes. Physical appearance wise he is one inch shorter than me.
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Doesn't exactly sound like you're into either. You don't HAVE to choose either. If you aren't sure about one than don't pick either of them.
My guess is that in you're head you know which one you'd be happier with but you want someone to give you the green light so to speak.
Unless I'm wrong, in which case, stay single.1