Just curious to know what the widely help perception of online dating is. I have always thought it was just for desperate losers. However, I hope that is not the case bc now I'm using the service. I am wanting some opinions from women on what they look for online. What are some ways to get a woman's attention without seeming creepy and or desperate bc I am neither. Any tips would be much appreciated. Preferably from Women. Thanks.
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Don't write "I'll fill this out later" anywhere
Don't complain about past relationships or women in general in your profile. Don't say things like "looking for an honest loyal girl, if there is any out there" or "where are all the good girls?" Just be positive in your profile
Use a good picture. I know it's obvious but some that guys use are terrible terrible. Especially don't pose with a gun. Unless you're james bond. Use at least one picture of you doing something like I don't know skiing, hiking, climbing, playing some sport...
And when you message her, at least say a small thing specific to her profile. Not just hi and not a long story about yourself that you copy and past everywhere. I think complementing on looks is not the best way to go. A friend of mine once got a message along the lines of "I like how your body is so thin and tight" weird!
Actually DO read her profile. And avoid questions she already answered in there
There are a lot of weird people and loser on those side of both genders, but also a few good ones. Especially if you use the paid sites. For the free ones you'll probably need some patience2