I don't get this girl:
-Initially liked me, but now needs time to herself because she's suffering with extreme depression and alcoholism. She's getting professional help tho!
-So flaky with hanging out, always says "maybe" or "We'll see" to hanging out
-We had a lot of fun the first time we hung out, but she admitted the only reason she met up with me was because she was drinking (she's extremely shy according to her)
-Havent seen her in 3 weeks cause of her flakyness and "maybes"
-Sometimes i feel im just being too inpatient and should let her control how this all goes
Anyway all i'm trying to do is give her her birthday gift (which finally arrived in the mail yesterday). I'm a couple days past her birthday but she doesn't mind. All I told her is i'd like to see her for FIVE minutes... but again she's giving excuses and blabla
I don't get her deal and i'm kinda frustrated with her flakyness. The only thing i can think of is she once said to me "I feel awkward about hanging out with you again. You know im trying to be single and dont want to develop feelings for anyone right now while i get help". But it's just 5 minutes out of her day and it's not a date..
What do i do? i was thinking of just leaving it on her doorstep or something. she lives with her parents btw. im not sure if its creepy to leave a gift at her door step.
- put it on her doorstepVote A
- wait till she meets up with you for itVote B
- other (post what)Vote C
Most Helpful Guy
Return the gift and move on. A flake like that ain't worth your time for all the frustration she's going to cause.1