GUYS: would u be willing to date a girl with a kid? or is tht not something tht u would want to get involved in? honesty please!
- yesVote A
- noVote B
- maybeVote C
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I tried to multiple times and it was always a disaster. Many of them can't date because they can't get a sitter and with me already having limited time with my priorities I can't afford to go outside of work schedules and stuff for it.
The worst is how I talked to some of them and the stories were absolute hell and I stopped talking to them. The ones I talked to were obsessed with revenge on the ex telling me their plans to take them to court and what they were gonna try and charge them for. I had to listen to their custody fights and their plans to sabotage their ex in court. One I know had a baby with a disappearing guy and slept around some more and just had another kid with someone else.
Women I have met that have more legitimate stories... like 2 out of the many.
Now when I get messaged online by a single mom I just don't reply. I don't have time for it.
I think from a girl's POV, if the guy has primary custody, it's seen as a lot better. From what I notice, if a girl doesn't have custody, she flips out for fear of her reputation (excluding the emotional attachment to the kid here) so if the guy has custody, a future partner will see it as him really dating a careless girl.1