I'm pretty quiet in school and i dont really mix up with people in school. My friends all say that I'm pretty and when I told them I never had a boyfriend, their reactions was like stop joking with me. But SERIOUSLY i never dated anyone before and I'm going to be 18 soon. I always wanted a bf but I just don't understand why guys are not attracted to me. I had a crush before and he doesn't even look at me and he also says that he's totally not attracted to me and ask me to find someone else. I was so heart-broken that time. i had loved him for 3 years. :( I've always have a lot of guys saying that they liked me ( where i heard from their friends) but They just wouldn't make a move. After being single for so long, i grew tired sometimes. When I'm feeling down i have no one to turn to and i've always kept things to myself so that no one would notice that I'm feeling down. I get along with people quite okay but i rarely talk to them after a few conversations. I don't know why but i just couldn't find a topic to talk about with them. My friends were surprised when they heard I NEVER had a bf because even they had BFs before. So i was wondering why guys wouldn't wanna date me? when I'm at campus, many guys will look at me and smile when i'm in the cafeteria or in the library cafe and in the library studying. But I just don't understand why. pls give me some advise on this so that i can understand myself more and i can change myself for the better.
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I notice the girls who care the least about getting a gf end up getting quite a few. I guess it's not always good to be desperate for someone unless the interest is mutual. If your appearance is into question, just exercise, stay away from coffee, don't smoke, don't drink (at least make it very moderate). Then stay away from sugar, you know the whole healthy food thing. Then exercise and sleep well. Once you're in good health, you'll have a clear mind, I'd say just forget the whole thing altogether and treat guys as you'd treat your other friends and then you'll have somewhere to start (being silent almost ensures you'll remain alone). And stop telling your gfs that you've never had a boyfriend, you need to learn to know what to say, when to say it, and what not to say etc. I'm surprised your parents didn't give you this advice, but you can look up online and read some forums, learn from how people think.0