So I met this guy online a few weeks ago. We have been chatting and the conversations have gone well.
Our first date was wonderful. We spent the entire day together. He admitted to me later that he wanted to kiss me. We flirted a lot :) He also said I was cute!
He's very affectionate and polite. He says he likes me, he's said that several times. He'll hug me and kiss my head too :)
Then we met up again a couple days later. I ended up spending the night at his house. He's a really nice guy, and seems really into me.
He drove me home, he didn't want me to take a cab back to my place and then contacted me later to come over again and we ended up watching a movie at his place.
Whenever I text him, he doesn't take long to respond. And when I suggest seeing each other he seems pretty eager.
He has admitted to having issues keeping girls in the past. Not sure why. He's had a long-term gf cheat on him as well.
So I don't know. He seems super interested, but he won't initiate conversations (via text).
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"He has admitted to having issues keeping girls in the past. Not sure why."
"So I don't know. He seems super interested, but he won't initiate conversations (via text)."
Have you ever considered that the key points in those two sentences (issues keeping girls, won't initiate conversations) correlate? Correlation doesn't necessarily imply causation, but I'll bet it does in this case.
I would suggest bringing this up to him. He probably doesn't realize that his lack of initiating communications probably shows women that he doesn't like them as much as he should, or that he doesn't show much affection.
It would probably boost your relationship, and help him come to terms with this issue of his.0