So I like this coworker very much and we've gone out a few times and we've slept together multiple times. I asked her to go out with me, but she said she wasn't over her ex. He committed suicide after they had an argument, she was very committed to him, and I don't want to pressure her into a relationship. But I like her very much and want more than the casual relationship we have. How do I take this? I want to go out and have a real relationship with her, but I don't think she will say yes even if I do.
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What about what she wants and needs? Do you really want to date a woman who is still very likely in love with a man who is now dead, and that's the only reason she's even available? If you really care about her, you need to back off and wait until she is ready, or distance yourself if you don't feel that you be around her if not with her.0