My boyfriend asked me out on the 8th of July this year andyesterday he told me he loved me and even before we started dating he tried to tell me he loves me. Every time he says it I tell him not to say it unless hw truly means it. Last night he said he does mean it and I just said thank you. He's only known me for a short time there's no way he could come to love me so fast, what do I do?
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To be honest, social media has transformed those tree words "I love you" into a big deal. In my opinion, he is able to tell you that he loves you, alright that's fine, if you don't feel like you're ready don't. Maybe he has never been in love with anyone and he might believe that what he feels right now is love. This might even be the case, but in my opinion, you can not be in love with someone before even having been dating. It is called "jumping in" because you jump into a relationship, you take a big commitment to be with someone without knowing if you will fall in love with the person. You start dating because you appreciate the person an feel sexually attracted, but love is something that can not exist right away. What can be is "blind-love". Basically, someone falls in love with someone, but the moment he/she notices something about the other person that he/she despises, this "blind-love" impression is shut off ;)1